Monday, February 2, 2009

God Laughs at Grand Plans

And yet, I still have difficulty learning this lesson in my life. I get all these ideas, and make plans for this stage of my life, or that stage, or whatever. A variety of monkey wrenches have been thrown into my gears numerous times in my life, and yet, I still don't learn apparently. Somewhere in there, I better learn or I'll keep making jokes about how I'll be at the car dealer on X birthday, saying " I need a vehicle with a maximum of two doors, back seat completely optional." Because in my life it's gone from 38, to around 45, to 52.
I will go so far as to admit I've pretty much gotten into arguments with the Big Guy about where my life is "supposed" to go, and there have been times I was a recalcitrant child, kicking and screaming. Lately, I don't kick so much but I sure stomp my foot a time or two. I'm hoping you figured this out already. Since this has two lines on it, that should pretty much clear things up for you. According to the "wheel" I am due at the end of September, so you'll be regaled with stories of my gestating misery in this Florida heat in a few months. I have children that arrived in July and October. Don't let anyone fool you. It's still hot in October. Which means September isn't going to be that much better. So, Persnickety and I were not traveling alone, without spawn like we thought. We had a stowaway apparently. Well, correction: *I* had the stowaway on board.
To answer your questions:
No, it was not planned or expected. This is a surprise, a fourth one at that. I'll quote a friend with four kids spaced farther apart than mine are "after three, what's one more."
Yes, we are well aware of what causes this. We are obviously good at it, given that we've had 16 years of practice. We also tend to enjoy it.
Yes, all of my children have the same baby daddy...why would you ask? Oh wait, nevermind, I get to be different on that one too.
Yes, we've been acquainted with prevention methods. I refuse to comment on that one.
No, I don't have a clue how we're going to handle this, but like everything else we've been handed, we will handle it.
And no, not everyone is happy for us. As a matter of fact, a certain relative has taken to being vile, mean and underhanded in their comments. For whatever reason, they can't be happy for anyone else out of their own misery. I pray for understanding, forgiveness and healing. This other person has their own legitimate problems in life, but the individual chooses to handle things poorly. I don't have to allow it to invade my life. And I won't. The excitement others have for us, is starting to rub off on me at least, and all I can say for Devildog is that he's coming to terms with the news. Poor guy hasn't slept well lately. His grand plans now have a monkey wrench too. That's ok, it'll be a cute one.

11 comments:

Persnickety Ticker said...

Aww...since you already have one with the nickname of Monkey does that mean we have to call this one Wrench?

Cuz I'm thinking there are going to be playground issues with that...

WordVert: tivaggle. A gaggle of tivvies. At 2 in the morning it's making me laugh hysterically. I think I need sleep...

MrsSoersdal said...

Yay! New baby!

I've got a July one and a September one so I know what that's all about. All I can say is LEMON SORBET. Saved my life while Giggles was gestating. I'll pray for a mild summer this year for you.

I never figured out why some people get angry over other people's pregnancies or kid counts or whatever that they have nothing to do with. As if they had to be pregnant along with you!

Jackie said...

Congratulations!

Sunny Yukon said...

Congrats :) This baby will be loved so much!

Kristin said...

Aw! Planned or not, congrats, hun!

SuburbanCorrespondent said...

Don't worry - you definitely won't regret it. Babies are always wonderful!

** miss shannon ** said...

Congratulations girl... God knows what He is doing, even when we don't have a clue or necessarily agree with Him... Blessings to you and your family !!!

Heather and Amber said...

Congratulations! Sometimes the best things in life aren't planned!

MrsSoersdal said...

Okay, seriously jonesing for an update now! Also, go to babystrology.com and get yourself one of those floating fetus ticker things maybe? They're fun, everybody gets them hehehe.

MaNiC MoMMy™ said...

I think it's so freaking cool. I wish I had four.

That said, I do have an appointment with my Gyne on Tuesday to schedule a talk to discuss a more permanent form of birth control, but I also think I am much older than you are.

CONGRATS!

Carri said...

Congratulations.